I've given up on the borders from and to R altogether ;).

Admittedly, I'm into bog standard shagfic if the characters ring true. The second I found immensely sexy, the first not so much, more effective for the characterisation. Sexiness is a subjective minefield, so sorry that this wasn't yours ;). I'm still reading femmeslash mostly to feed my (admittedly under-developed) desire for romance :).