" I may enjoy to go very dark in writing, but it's still not remotely *me* - just things to play with" --
Well let's put it this way -- I don't see a reason or benefit from exploring this particular kind of darker sexulality. Maybe that is because I have been "played with" -- and there is absolutely nothing sexual about it -- meaning it has nothing to do with sex. But control only -- the forcing of someones will upon a person who cannot defend themselves prpoerly. Sex is about pleasure not control! And I would gladly (and I am sure millions of other "victims" would do so too) change places with anyone seeing the slightest need to explore this in anyway. They take our dignity, our feelings and our trust!! Things that can never be replaced!!! Your political convictions are opinions -- they don't hurt another person. The things described in some fandom have been done and are hurtful to someone else -- in a mirrad of ways! Something each of us will have to deal with for the rest of our lifes -- something that still causes problemes, even a quater of a century late!!!
So, I am sorry if I don't cry myself a river for people getting suspended over incest or rape.....
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Date: 2007-06-04 01:20 pm (UTC)Well let's put it this way -- I don't see a reason or benefit from exploring this particular kind of darker sexulality. Maybe that is because I have been "played with" -- and there is absolutely nothing sexual about it -- meaning it has nothing to do with sex. But control only -- the forcing of someones will upon a person who cannot defend themselves prpoerly.
Sex is about pleasure not control!
And I would gladly (and I am sure millions of other "victims" would do so too) change places with anyone seeing the slightest need to explore this in anyway.
They take our dignity, our feelings and our trust!! Things that can never be replaced!!!
Your political convictions are opinions -- they don't hurt another person. The things described in some fandom have been done and are hurtful to someone else -- in a mirrad of ways! Something each of us will have to deal with for the rest of our lifes -- something that still causes problemes, even a quater of a century late!!!
So, I am sorry if I don't cry myself a river for people getting suspended over incest or rape.....